DEAR ABBY: My husband and I are in our 70s. We are in reasonably good shape. That said, I have hip replacements, and my knees and hips have become sore from the stairs I must climb every day. We have a lovely large home, but I know it’s time to move to senior living like my many friends who are making the transition now.

My husband ignores my entreaties. “I will leave this house only feet first,” he retorts every time I say the stairs are too much for me. Abby, I bring my clothes downstairs in a bag every day to avoid another climb. I am making every accommodation I can and am now considering divorce as an option.

The bottom line is, my husband is a selfish old man. Every social group he belongs to and the beautiful home he refuses to leave have all been my doing. I have also been an equ

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